Social Solitude Is Fate or Preference?
There is a pathological difference between the fact that man has to choose to be alone. The most important thing in discovering this situation is awareness.
The concept of loneliness as an inner impulse; It is a situation that arises as a result of preferences rather than fate of people. Loneliness is an emotion that exists within the existential reality of man and must live from time to time. Living this feeling is important for human health. To be alone, to confront with itself, to see the right of loneliness shows that there is a feeling to be lived. But there is a pathological difference between the fact that man has to choose to be alone. The most important thing in discovering this situation is awareness.
Industrialization and the dangers of the modern age are the loneliness that there is no awareness. Residents of cities; neighborhood, kinship, friendship concepts, because of the intense tempo of life buried in memories and “single-headed” began to take the steps of neuroticization process. People have turned back to the individuality, which is far from socializing with the effect of developing technology. He started to be alone in the crowds, feeling lonely and this caused neurotic processes such as depression, sleep disturbance and eating disorder.
Loneliness is a personal feeling. But the
most common social loneliness; In terms of causes and consequences, each individual has similar characteristics.
Social loneliness; it is the loneliness of people who are alienated from the society they are living in. For these people the crowds have become boring. All of the activities that have been carried out by entering into people have become meaningless. Being part of society has become difficult.
Socially lonely individual; low self-esteem, depression, shyness, anxiety, tension, neuroticism and introversion.
Eric Fromm; He said that nothing could unite people as much as their common feelings. The inability to be a part of the whole, the transformation of “us” into individuality, the ability to keep up with the rapidly changing society, have been the foundations of social isolation.
In the absence of precautionary measures of social loneliness, the process of depression and chronicity emerges when people try to add meaning to their situation. The person wants to get rid of this loneliness and he fears that he has lost the feature of being involved in the society. Along with all these processes, phobia, anxiety disorders and self-blame begin to call for depression. Without the help of loneliness, an expert should be taken and with high awareness, the person should reach the level of being “us” again.
We should not forget that correct and healthy communication must be face to face, that individualization should be done with conscious and high awareness and despite the modern age, it is necessary to keep up with the society as much as each individual.
As a result, social loneliness is a process of loneliness caused by the modern age, but also by the weak characteristic of the person. The important thing is to be ready for action in a creative and enthusiastic way before this problem becomes chronic and you start to enjoy this loneliness. Because human beings are part of the social structure and this situation leads to the formation of destructive processes in the self-perception. This loneliness is the concept of loneliness, an intrinsic urge; It is a situation that arises as a result of preferences rather than fate of people. When loneliness starts getting heavy, we need to get help from an expert and take action.